OK, first of all that picture that you have on your post is wrong. The connector on the right is the one that belongs on the "car end," not the other way around. Take a look at this link, it shows all the pins and their wire colors:
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So the number 4 pin (top right flat pin) is the battery (+) power. It should be hot at all times. The wire color is red/tan (12ga thick wire) If its not, check the number 7 fuse again, even though it looks good replace it anyway. I've seen some that look good, but are still bad.
If you still don't have power, then you either have a bad/loose connection somewhere along, or someone messed around with your trailer connector and screwed it up, somehow. If your connector is worn and corroded, this may be your problem, clean or replace it.
TSB 08-33-96
So the number 4 pin (top right flat pin) is the battery (+) power. It should be hot at all times. The wire color is red/tan (12ga thick wire) If its not, check the number 7 fuse again, even though it looks good replace it anyway. I've seen some that look good, but are still bad.
If you still don't have power, then you either have a bad/loose connection somewhere along, or someone messed around with your trailer connector and screwed it up, somehow. If your connector is worn and corroded, this may be your problem, clean or replace it.