Geesh I swear you were my wife! She complains about the exact same thing. The only problem is that if I am in the passenger seat when she drives, I have absolutely no problems. To be honest, I think it's user error....:rofThe seat belt for the passenger side is very sensitive. If the passenger moves even a little bit forward the belt locks up tight. The only way to unlock it is to undo the belt and put it back on. Is this common or is there something we can do to make it a little less sensitive?