Being an auto there is a very easy access panel to inspect the flexplate. If that looks fine it is probably time for a new starter...... just FYI pumping the throttle does nothing on a diesel.
Also you need to check the whole ring gear, most engines (these ones included) tend to stop in one spot most often and that will put a ton of wear on just one spot on the gear and the rest looks fine. I’ve seen that a few times.I'll check it out this morning and get back to you, thanks!