Thanks for all the help so far guys.
Okay, the control arms are tube, not c or u channel.
Bear in mind, I'm looking at parts here not knowing what is aftermarket and what is OEM.
Sooo.....comparing to other Dodges I have now looked at, there are actually RED spacers on the top, look like 2" or so (like stated, might need to come out to measure properly). Ignore what I said about the black, must have been really confused.
Only on the front, and there IS a bodylift on the back....horizontal tubing running across underneath the bed.
The red spacers, are not completely round, more of a polygonal shape to them...haven't been able to identify them yet online.